“Pyaar kiya nahi jata, ho jata hai,
Dil diya nahi jata, kho jata hai…”
This line from a Hindi film song shows that love has no age or limit. It can happen to anyone, anywhere and at any age. This is a feeling that doesn't come with an 'age tag'. The feeling of love transcends all boundaries of age, caste and religion.
Love is the most beautiful feeling in life, which gives us happiness, satisfaction and fulfillment. It enriches life and gives us the opportunity to connect with others. This may happen initially or gradually over time. This can happen even at the age of 40 or 50 years. It is an important part of our life and we should openly admit it.
There are many people in the world who listened to their hearts instead of worrying about society. From US Vice President Kamala Harris to Bollywood actress Neena Gupta, there are many celebrities who fell in love after the age of 40. Kamala Harris got married for the first time at the age of 19 and divorced about 15 years later. Even at 45, Harris didn't expect to find love again at this age. At age 49, she met her husband, Douglas Amhoff, on a blind date. While Bollywood's best actress Neena Gupta married Vivek Mehra, a chartered accountant from Delhi at the age of 49 after dating for 6 years.
today relationship In the column we will talk about Middle Age dating. If you are single and looking for love over 40 then you will know how you can do this. What should you be aware of while dating?
What is middle age dating? Middle age dating means dating someone in their 40s-50s or later. At this stage of age one begins to lose hope of love. Many times people feel lonely at the age of 40.
At the same time, there are some people who prefer to be alone after 40 and are not looking for love. But suddenly at some point they find someone whom they like. Then they want to move forward in life with him.
It is said that love has no age limit. There are many people in the world who fall in love at their old age and decide to spend their life with someone.
The definition of love changes after a certain age
Finding love in your 40s-50s can seem like a challenge, but with the right person, it can also be a beautiful feeling. It is possible that you have gone through divorce, separation in your life, which has filled your mind with some kind of fear or negativity.
One of the most positive aspects of dating after a certain age is that with maturity our definition of love also matures. In our 20s, we often confuse hormones with love. Passion, insanity and insanity are more affected by age and hormones than a lasting, deep love.
But over time it stops. Then love for us means help, compassion, kindness, care, simplicity more than words like madness or madness in love.
How to start dating after 40 Finding love can start anytime and anywhere. But every age requires some wisdom and caution. After a certain age certain things need to be taken care of. American relationship coaches Nancy Michael and Neil B. Wood has written a book on this – 'Dating Success After 40'. In this book he gives some tips for successful dating over 40.
Find love, but not for the wrong reasons You must have heard the dialogue “Jise siddat se chaho, poori kayanat tumse milanem lag jaati hai.” Hope you don't believe such things after the age of 40. This is film material. It's understandable if 20-year-olds believe this. But such romanticism at 40 shows that you have only grown in age, not maturity.
So, there is no harm in finding a life partner after a certain age, but this search should not be for wrong reasons. Never search for a life partner for these reasons like,-
- You fear being alone.
- After being single you feel isolated from society.
- Being single is taboo in your eyes.
- You are not happy with yourself.
- You are impressed by seeing someone else.
- You are eager to get a partner at any cost.
If any of these reasons are true then you should stop looking for a life partner and spend some time with yourself and try to strengthen yourself mentally and emotionally.
Remember, anything done in a hasty attempt to escape from oneself will not bring good results. When you approach something beautiful with a calm mind, happiness, ease, simplicity and depth, the result is also beautiful.
In their book, Nancy Michael and Neil B. Wood, point out some of the mistakes that people often make when dating after 40. So, it is very important to be careful about these mistakes.
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