Mohini Mehta
Question: My daughter has been married for two years, but she has not had a child yet. Medical tests of daughter and son-in-law were done, but no conclusion was found. My son-in-law is thinking of divorcing my daughter for this reason. what to do A woman (Ahmedabad) Answer: Your daughter has been married for two years. At that time, it is surprising to know that they are in such a hurry to have children in their family. It is especially surprising that if the medical test of both of them did not get any result, then no one thought anything to solve it. In general, the man has the same responsibility as the wife for childbearing. You should ask your daughter to get her husband tested by a good sexologist. He himself should consult another gynecologist. Thus there is no need to take the hasty step of divorce. Question: A girl in my office is very supportive of me many times. Anything – office related or personal – always helps me. Everyone in the office is aware of this, but for some time everyone in the staff has started talking that there is a relationship between the two of us. I am not concerned about myself, but about the girl who is still unmarried, being falsely defamed in this way. what do i do A young man (Vadodara) Answer : Both of you are colleagues and it often happens that two people working together in the office have an innocent friendship and a sense of helping each other. There is nothing wrong with that. If your staff talks about your relationship and you are concerned about defamation of that girl, then it will be more imperative for you to sit with her calmly and discuss and reduce the relationship. Question: A friend of mine used to have a lot of trouble with me. Some time ago he became friends with another girl from our same college, now he ignores me and sometimes insults me even if I call him face to face. I am very sorry for his behavior. Please guide me properly. A girl (Surat) Answer : If your friend prefers friendship with another college girl and she ignores you, insults you, then there is no need to feel bad. There is no need to be saddened by the thought of a person who treats himself so well leaving, humiliating, or ignoring someone else. Let it go its way. When he will appreciate you, he will surely start treating you like before. Question: In my family I have elder brothers and sisters and my mother. My sister-in-law has a bit of a strange temper. It often makes my mom cringe even in simple things. Mom doesn't say anything, but I think that if my sister-in-law is behaving like this even in my presence, what will be the condition of mom after my marriage? what do i do A girl (Rajkot) Answer: As a daughter, it is understandable that you feel feelings for your mother. You should convince your sister-in-law not to treat your mom like this. Explain to them that with age there is a slight change in temperament. Also tell your brother that he should also explain to him that it is not befitting of him to behave in this way. After your marriage, it is possible that you will find someone who is willing to take care of your mom. Don't worry too much from now on.
Question: My wife is very intelligent, but she has a habit of shopping indiscriminately. How to find a solution to this problem? A young man (Ahmadabad) Answer : It is a psychological finding that a person can develop this type of problem even if he has suffered from emotional problems in his childhood or he has faced severe deprivation in his childhood. Many people feel a sense of self-sufficiency and control over others when they shop, and this positive feeling drives them to shop more and more. Your wife's problem immediately points to her mental state. If you need to solve this problem properly, you should take the help of a psychiatrist.
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