Mohini Mehta Question: I have been in love with a girl for three years, who is seventeen years old. Since our caste is different, there is a clear no of our relationship from his mother. My age is 21 years. After her mom said no, my girlfriend doesn't respond to me like before. He says that he does not mind if I get married elsewhere. He will have a relationship even after my marriage. what should i do A young man (Ahmedabad) Answer : Your sweetheart is still barely seventeen years old. It lacks the maturity and understanding it needs now. Also, if his mother has not accepted this relationship, then there is no need to proceed in a one-sided relationship. If she doesn't respond to you the way she used to before, then it is natural that she doesn't want to marry you. She may have valued her family's feelings more than her relationship with you and that's why she might want to distance herself from you. You find a good character in your caste and get married. If your girlfriend says that she is ready to have a relationship with you even if you get married elsewhere, it is totally inappropriate. This can lead to major problems in life. If you get married elsewhere, don't make the mistake of having a relationship with your ex-girlfriend after marriage. Question: When I got married, we both went on honeymoon after about two months. I got pregnant when we went on honeymoon. Now my son is three years old. My husband is unhappy that he could not enjoy the honeymoon due to the pregnancy. It is often irritated. How should I explain them? A girl (Vadodara) Answer : Explain to your husband that there is no need to be unhappy that you didn't get to enjoy your honeymoon. When the son grows up a little, but handing him over to grandma or nani, you both can go for honeymoon again. There is no need for unnecessary fuss. Also, if you get pregnant, you have to take care of it as well as your husband. So don't take their embarrassment or irritation too much on your mind. Such small and big problems keep coming in married life. Marriage life can be happy only by understanding each other. Question: My son is ten years old. He has already got into the habit of watching inappropriate videos on mobile. How to get rid of such a curse? Ek Purush (Surat) Answer : It is not right for your ten year old son to watch such videos from now, but it is also your fault that you gave him a mobile phone at such a young age. If you give him mobile, he sees all this. If you want to get rid of this addiction, first of all you need to get rid of the mobile addiction. Only then give him the understanding of right and wrong. So it is possible that he can understand and leave his stubbornness. Question: My wife loves me a lot, but often when I ask her to have a relationship, she says no. Even if I want so much, she doesn't accept me. I don't understand the reason for his behavior. what do i do A Male (Rajkot) Answer : You have not informed about your wife or your own age. So it's a bit difficult to tell exactly why your wife is behaving like this. However, if they are going through menopause, many women do not want to have a relationship during this time. So your wife cannot be blamed. Also, many times women stay away from intercourse because they are tired or for some other reason. This may also be the case with your wife. You should talk to him about this matter once free me calmly. Your problem will be solved.
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Sweet dilemma: Girlfriend doesn't respond after family's denial!
