You must have heard that 'Kan Karina Marai Kadi Na Maree, Mena Na Marai Marie Walida…' Sometimes the wax is useful for paying the debt, but it also forces the wax to die. Physical wounds heal with time, but a wax wound does not heal or forget for life. 'Meanu kadi na mariye, meanu matha no gha' is why parents enable their daughter not to be beaten by her in-laws or what did your parents teach you! Many daughters have died of starvation due to these waxes. But those who found the way have become exemplary. Rasilaben Dyalal Gordia of Moti Veerani village of Nakhtrana taluk has barely read four books. At a young age, she got engaged and married to Dyalal, who suffered from 40% disability due to a doctor's mistake. Husband got a job in Nakhtrana Bus Depot, but as fate was two steps ahead, within 12 months due to an accident, his disability increased. She observed a 14-day fast for her husband to get better soon. His sentiment was the same that if my man is fine I will earn, but he must be safe. Rasilaben experienced the belief that nature shows the way to confusion. In his Peer Lakhiyar Veera, his father taught him to drive a tractor from an early age in agriculture, so he realized that if I had a driving license, I could drive any four-wheeler! So she discussed with her husband whether to borrow money from someone or to hug relatives and friends and sometimes she would give up. Why should we run the house by earning our own money instead of being someone's servant, he decided to take his gold necklace as a mortgage and take an eco car on installments and started the work of picking up and dropping children to and from a private school. God has given women strength, endurance, understanding along with adventure. That is why a woman swallows the pain and lives with dignity. Rasilaben should take special care to save the 14 children of the village from going to school both times. Drive safely. Runs his house very well by charging reasonable fees from children. Teaches his daughter and son well. Even the legs do not support unless you insist on standing on your own feet. Sometimes the world of imagination seems good, but reality always has to be subordinated, but Jo 'Dam Hai To Kaam Bhi Hai Aur Dam Bhi Hai, Nahin To Badnam Hai' proved this to Rasilabe. Seek help from nature before succumbing to death thinking weakly. Never underestimate the virtues and skills imparted by parents are our source of strength. Seeing the passion and skills of Rasilaben, the fourth daughter among his seven daughters, an experienced father taught her to drive which became a means of livelihood in her life. The education given by parents never goes unwritten. A self-confident person does not like small or weak work. His work also has more merits than demerits. Talking to Rasilaben, his poverty is evident that 'Munzai should not sit at home, no one should be reluctant to earn by working rather than asking from someone.' Salutations to the Feminine Goddess on the eve of Navratri.
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