Karva Choth is celebrated every year on the fourth day of Aso Vad Paksha. On this day, married women observe a fast for the long life and good health of their husbands.
Now the time has passed when everything in this world was done for the good of men. Now is the age of equality, so why not see its effect in festivals too. If you also observe a vow for your wife on Kara Choth, it can add a new dimension to your relationship.
This idea may sound a little strange, but believe me, when you share this day with your partner in this way, it will give a new depth to your relationship.
It is believed that women understand emotions better than men. While men are poor at understanding women emotionally. In such a situation, Kara Choth can be a good opportunity for you to understand your female partner and connect with her emotionally.
So, today we In a relationship Let's know if you also this Fourth to do But if you keep a fast for your wife, how will it positively affect your relationship. You will also know that-
- How Choth Fasting Can Improve Your Relationships
- Why Karva Choth Vrat is important to understand wife's feelings?
Cricketer Virat Kohli also observes Karwa Choth for his wife Anushka Sharma
Abhishek Bachchan takes fourth vow for his wife Aishwarya Rai Bachchan
Many Bollywood male actors observe Karva Choth Vrat with their wives. Abhishek Bachchan keeps this vow with complete devotion for his wife Aishwarya Rai Bachchan. Ayushmann Khurrana also observes Karva Choth for his wife Tahira Kashyap. When Ayushmann's wife Tahira was diagnosed with cancer, Ayushmann fasted on Karva Choth to pray for her long life and has been fasting for Tahira ever since. Cricketer Virat Kohli also observes Karwa Choth for his wife Anushka Sharma and considers it a symbol of the depth and love of their relationship.
Rajkundra and Shilpa Shetty
Importance of fasting by husband Traditionally, Karva Choth is celebrated by women for the long life and happiness and prosperity of their husbands. But with time this idea has started to change. Nowadays equality in husband-wife relationship has increased in importance. In such a situation, if the husband also fasts for his wife, it gives a positive message.
Many times we make the mistake of assuming the work of others is easy until we do the work ourselves. In such a situation, when you fast for a whole day without water, you realize how difficult it is.
That too when women fast without water and complete household chores. Also, they are wholeheartedly engaged in the work of worship and fasting. In such a situation, when you fast with her, you will understand your wife better.
Respect and love for each other will increase When you do Karva Choth Vrat for your wife, it is not only a ritual but also an emotional connection. This makes your wife feel that you value her feelings.
Your vow not only shows your love and dedication to your wife, but also shows that both of you are equal partners in happiness and sorrow. This shows that you want to maintain this relationship with all your heart, not just to follow a tradition.
Also, when you fast and pray for your wife's health and happiness, your wife will believe that the relationship between you two is not just for show, but for the heart.
When you share this special day with your wife, she will understand your feelings and it will deepen your relationship. Apart from this, when both observe fast together, both will understand each other better.
To do this, repeat the wedding vows
Get up early in the morning and take bath
Meditate on God with your wife and take vows
Prepare Sargi before sunrise and eat it with your wife
In the evening, do moon-darshan with your wife and offer arghya
Be involved in all the preparations for the pooja with your wife
Repeat the wedding vows to each other once again on this day
How to keep Karwa Choth Vrat for your wife Now the question comes that if you want to keep Karo Choth Vrat for your wife then how to keep it? For this you can get up early in the morning and consume Sargi with your wife. Sargi is eaten before starting the fast. The mother-in-law gives the sargi to the son-in-law. It contains substances that reduce hunger and thirst after eating.
You can start the fast by eating sargi sitting with your wife. Sargi consists of light food and drinks, which will give you energy throughout the day. After this you can stay whole day without eating or drinking anything. Then you break the fast only after the moon rises. Since you will be doing Karva Choth Vrat for the first time, you can also ask your wife about the puja method and make preparations.
Do these preparations before fasting
If you also keep a fast for your wife on Kara Choth, it can be very special for your relationship. This can deepen your love, dedication and emotional connection. It will not only increase your love for your wife, but also bring a new sweetness and freshness to your relationship.
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