Do you remember that golden childhood spent with your brother and sister, when someone made mistakes and scolded the other? We used to eat our own share of chocolates, but also stole our sister's chocolates from the fridge. When the sister asked for a glass of water, the reply was, 'Why don't you go and get it yourself.' But my sister always saved us when it came to saving herself from father's scolding.
Such a unique relationship can only exist between a brother and a sister, where it is difficult to live with each other, but cannot live without each other. Actually, this relationship does not depend on any particular day. But just as a special day is chosen for other relationships, Raksha Bandhan is also celebrated for siblings. There is another day, which has been created for this relationship and that is – Bhaibij.
Bhaibij is a festival that promotes love and affection between brother and sister. It is also called Bhaibij, Bhaiya Dooj. It is a time when brothers and sisters come together to celebrate their love, respect and dedication to each other. Sisters apply tilak on the forehead of their brothers and pray for their well-being. Brothers in return bless their sisters and promise to protect them for life.
Tomorrow is Bhaibij and on this occasion we relationship In the column we will talk about brother-sister love. We will also learn how brothers and sisters can relive their childhood memories and deepen their relationship.
Sibling relationship is sweet and sour Sibling relationship is full of bitter and sweet disputes. This relationship begins in childhood and lasts throughout life. This relationship includes love, affection, joking, fighting and support. No matter how much the siblings tease each other, they still fight if someone else thinks to do the same. Indeed, the sibling relationship is very unique.
There is no better friend than a brother or sister From childhood to adulthood, brothers and sisters share all their joys and sorrows together. Those who used to be enemies of each other due to disobedience in childhood, sometimes become partners in crime and sometimes friends as they grow up. Protecting from father's scolding, hiding something from mother, hiding at night and eating ice cream together, and waiting as watchman at the door when he comes home late. Only siblings can do this for each other.
History also bears witness to the unbreakable bond between brother and sister.
- Relationship between Subhadra and Krishna
Subhadra, the sister of Lord Krishna and Balarama, has special mention in Hindu mythology. Krishna has been protective of Subhadra. Krishna went against the family and helped Subhadra marry Arjuna. This story of Krishna and Subhadra shows how far a brother can go to protect his sister and ensure her happiness.
- Relationship between Yamuna and Yamaraj
Yamaraj and Yamuna have a unique relationship. According to mythology, on this day Yamaraj visits his sister Yamuna and prays for her well-being. Their story symbolizes the protective aspect of sibling relationships.
- Rama and Shanta's relationship
The relationship between Lord Rama and his elder sister Shanta is also very deep in Ramayana. Shanta was the daughter of King Dasharatha and Queen Kaushalya and was adopted by King Romapada. After Shanta's marriage to Rishyasringa, Ayodhya became prosperous, after which Sri Rama and his brothers were born. Their story shows strong family bonds and the sacrifices brothers and sisters make for each other.
Strengthen your relationship on Bhai Bija Bhai Bija is a special occasion when siblings can strengthen their relationship. If you have separated from your brother or sister for some reason or are angry about something and are not talking then this Bhai Dooj will give your relationship another chance. Below are some pointers that can help you rekindle your relationship with your brother or sister-
- Take the initiative – On BhaiBij, take the initiative and call or message your brother or sister. Tell them how much you still love them today.
- Apologizing- Apologizing does not make anything big or small. Apologize if you are at fault and try to mend your relationship.
- Start a conversation- Start a conversation with your brother or sister and try to understand them. Try to forget what happened earlier and suggest a solution.
- Reminisce- Reminisce your childhood memories and remember the moments when you two were together. Don't let the distance that has come between the two of you after growing up hinder your relationship.
- Give a gift- Give your brother or sister a small gift that shows your love and respect.
By adopting these tips, you can strengthen your relationship with your siblings and make BhaiBij a memorable moment.
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