Today, for various reasons like study or work, people have to stay away from their homes and cities. In such a situation, their relationship also turns into a long distance relationship.
However, compared to a normal relationship, a long distance relationship has its own set of challenges. Since two people are not physically close, finding time to talk to each other, maintaining love and trust, and not feeling lonely, all become a bit of a challenge.
In a long distance relationship, people need more attention and care, because in this one is away from their partner for a long time. In such a situation he needs emotional and mental support.
So today relationship In this column we will talk about long distance relationship. You will also know that-
- What to do to keep a long distance relationship healthy?
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What is a long distance relationship?
A long distance relationship is one in which two people have a close relationship. But they stay away from each other due to their work or some other reason, due to which they cannot meet each other for months or years. It is also called LDR (Long Distance Relationship) in Generation Z parlance.
The foundation of a long distance relationship is based on trust, love and communication. To make it successful, the mutual bond between both the partners should be better.
Learn how to maintain a long distance relationship through the points given in the graphic below.
Let us now talk about this in detail.
Communication is the basis of a long distance relationship
Effective and healthy communication is the foundation of any relationship. Its importance increases in long distance relationships as the partners are not close to each other. In such a situation, it is important to stay connected with each other through messages, video calls, letters or any other means. It strengthens the relationship.
Share small talk with your partner Talk to your partner about food, travel, shopping, going to office or other important matters. This makes them feel that you care about everything about them. Listen carefully to the small details of their daily routine. This will make them feel special and also reduce the feeling of alienation from you.
Surprise your partner When we are away from our partner we tend to forget many small things. These things can cause a rift in a relationship. So, to make your partner always feel special, you can surprise them on each other's birthday, anniversary or any special day. This will strengthen the bonding between the two.
Trust each other Trust is the foundation of any relationship, the slightest slippage of which can break the relationship. Its importance increases even more in a long distance relationship. So keep faith in each other. In case of any doubt, talk openly with your partner so that there is no communication gap in the relationship.
Respect each other's feelings In a long distance relationship, it is necessary to take care of the partner's feelings. Because you are not always around him. If your partner tells you something, listen carefully and try to understand his feelings. So that he does not feel lonely.
Make plans to meet soon The truth is that you cannot maintain a long distance relationship forever. So make sure the stay away doesn't last too long or plan to meet as soon as possible. It keeps the relationship fresh.
Make a video call There was a time when people had to wait months or even years to see their spouse when they were away. But in this world of technology there are features like phone call and video call, with the help of which we can connect with our partner anytime, anywhere and anytime. It plays an important role in making our relationship strong and healthy. In a way, it is like sitting face to face and talking to each other.
Also focus on positivity It is also important to feel your emotions when you are away from your partner. Recognize the benefits of long distance in such situations. Like make time for personal development and friends too. Make a list of fun things about your relationship that you can focus on when you're alone.
It is also necessary to meet periodically In a long distance relationship, it is important to see each other from time to time because being away too much can cause distance in the relationship. If you live abroad, make time to meet at least once or twice a year. If you live in another city in the country, try to meet once in two-three months. You can take 1 or 2 weeks off and also plan to travel somewhere.
Keep these things in mind in a long distance relationship As important as it is to talk to your partner regularly in a long distance relationship, it is equally important to share your feelings openly, listen to their needs, schedule meetings, and make plans about the future of your relationship. This can make you feel closer to your partner. See the graphic below to know more about this.
Do long distance relationships last long? Dr. Gitanjali Sharma explains that long-distance relationships can last longer and be just as successful as relationships between couples who live close to each other. Its success depends on communication, trust and commitment of both partners. For this, it is important to share your feelings, plans and experiences with each other regularly.
Intimacy is important even in a long distance relationship Intimacy plays an important part in a relationship. But maintaining intimacy in a long distance relationship is very challenging. For this it is necessary to meet the partner from time to time. One of the advantages of a long distance relationship is that it increases commitment towards each other and one realizes the importance of one's partner.
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