Today is the 89th birthday of Salim Khan, the famous writer of Hindi cinema. Born in Indore, Madhya Pradesh, Salim Khan is always in the news due to his personal and professional life relationships. On the occasion of his birthday today, let's know about 9 special relationships of Salim Khan…
Salim Khan was born on 24 November 1935.
Relationship- 1:- At the age of 9 the shadow of the mother and at the age of 14 the shadow of the father arose. A mother is the most important thing for a child, but Salim was deprived of his mother's love at an early age. Indeed, when Salim was 4 years old, his mother was suffering from Tuberculosis (TB). For this reason Salim and his brother were told to stay away from their mother.
Narrating an incident related to his mother, Salim said in an interview to Nilesh Mishra that none of us could go to our mother. One day I was playing outside the house. He was sitting far away and looking at me, then he asked the woman standing by – whose child is this? The woman said that I am her son. He called me a little closer to him, looked at me and then sent me back. When I was 9 years old, my mother died.
As mother was suffering from TB, father fulfilled our every wish. Although I was very afraid of them. This was the reason why I decided that I would be my children's friend, so that they would not be afraid of me. My father also died in 1950 when I was 14 years old.
Relationship-2- Brother's taunts inspire him to struggle in Mumbai After the death of his parents only his elder brother remained in Salim Khan's life. At first the elder brother took over all his responsibilities. Salim's father was a DIG rank police officer. After his death the eldest son got this job. The elder brother took up the task and saved Salim. His brother got him a car when he was in college, although having a car was a big deal in those days.
However, the elder brother's attitude changed completely when Salim got an offer to come to Mumbai and become a hero. In fact, Salim had made up his mind to go to Mumbai as soon as he got the film offer, but his brother said that he will return to Indore in a few days, and if you don't come back, he will definitely demand money every month. Salim was very hurt by these words of his brother.
Salim Khan reached Mumbai, but he had no knowledge of the city or the industry. Due to which he had to face many struggles. When he director K. When he reached Amarnath, he got the role of a side hero in the film Baaraat. He was already given Rs 1000 as signing amount. Apart from this, they were given 400 rupees per month. The film did not work and Salim Khan also did not get special recognition. The money earned from the film also started running out. Fed up with the situation, he decides to leave Mumbai, but then remembers his brother's taunt. For this reason he thought it better to continue the struggle. After the first film was a flop, Salim was earning a living by doing small roles in films. Then he started writing. This was the same work that Salim used to do a lot in Indore.
Relationship-3- Salim was the messiah of friends in Indore, arranged many relationships by writing love letters. Salim used to write love letters to his friends in Indore, the handwriting and words were so good that it became the talk of every friend. Salim said in 'Angry Young Men' series – My friends used to get love letters written by me for their girlfriends. Until then I had no idea that I could write. When I came to Mumbai, my friends from Indore used to say that you ruined us and went to Mumbai.
Relationship-4- Relationship with Javed Akhtar broke due to misunderstanding According to the book 'Written by Salim-Javed' by Deeptakirti Chaudhary, Amitabh Bachchan became a star with the film 'Zanjeer' written by Salim-Javed. Years later, when the same duo asked Amitabh Bachchan to act in the film 'Mr India' written by them, he categorically refused. Amitabh said – I am a hero, people come to see me, who will come to hear my voice.
Salim-Javed were extremely upset with Amitabh's refusal. Javed Akhtar decided that he would no longer work with Amitabh Bachchan, although Salim Sahib was not happy with this decision. A few days later, Javed Sahib arrives at a Holi party organized at Amitabh Bachchan's house and tells him that Salim Khan never wants to work with him. Due to this misunderstanding, the pair's working relationship deteriorated and the two never worked together again. In 1982, their hit duo finally broke up. However, the friendship is still intact.
The story of their friendship is also that Javed didn't want to marry Honey Irani at the beginning of his career. He wanted to focus fully on his career, so he ended the relationship by sending Salim to Honey's house. When Salim reached Honey's house following his friend's advice, he said very bad things about Javed. However, their efforts were in vain. Javed Akhtar married Honey Irani in 1972. This story was narrated by Javed Sahab and Salim Khan in 'Angry Young Man' series.
Recently, Salim Khan and Javed Akhtar were seen in the series 'The Angry Young Man'. Both have written stories for 24 films, out of which 22 have been blockbusters.
Relationship-5- Salim was Sushila's neighbor, after meeting for a few days they decided to get married. In his early days in Mumbai, Salim Khan lived at his friend's house in Marina Heights, Worli. Sushila Charak also lived in the neighborhood. Salim was tough, no one could beat him quickly in a claw fight. In no time, these habits made him popular in the colony.
This popularity led to a conversation between Salim and Sushila. Both used to meet in hiding away from the eyes of the family. After meeting like this for a few days, Salim said to Sushila – I don't like such meetings. I want to meet your family and fix our relationship.
Sushila also accepted his proposal and arranged to meet him with the family. When Salim reaches Sushila's house, he is shocked to see the whole family, however, they somehow start talking. Sushila's father was very fond of Salim, but was against inter-caste marriage. Salim said on this issue – There will be thousands of problems between us, but religion will never come in the way. Because of this Sushila's family agreed to the marriage.
Relationship- 6- Married a second time to avoid disgrace There was a time when actress and dancer Helen had no work. She was beset by financial problems. Then Salim Khan helped him. However, when both of them were seen together, people used it as an affair.
Salim did not want anyone to question Helen's character. This was the reason why he decided to make Helen his second wife, but his decision created a great distance between Salim and his first wife. Salim mentioned this incident in an interview given to Nilesh Mishra.
At the same time, Salim said in an interview to Zoom, 'I did not decide to marry Helen again because I was unhappy with my first marriage or because I wanted to end it. I did not decide to marry Helen suddenly. It took a lot of time. I liked Helen, but I had no feelings for her.
I told Salma for the first time that Helen is in my life. I did this because I didn't want them to find out about our relationship through a gossip magazine or anyone else.
Salim Khan continued, 'When I told her, naturally she was not happy about it because what I was going to do was not a good thing. Of course, we had problems after that. After some time everyone accepted this. Salim Khan praised Salma Khan in an interview and said that she handled the whole situation well and for this he will always be grateful to her.
Relationship- 7- Adopted a girl crying near her mother's dead body by the roadside. Salim Khan has 5 children – three sons Salman Khan, Arbaaz Khan, Sohail and two daughters Arpita and Alvira.
Salim Khan's second daughter Arpita Khan is not his biological daughter. Indeed, one day Salim went for a morning walk. Meanwhile, a girl was crying on the roadside near her mother's dead body. Salim could not bear the girl's pain and brought her home.
Salim and his second wife Helen had no children. In such a situation, he legally adopted the girl child. This girl is none other than Arpita Khan, in whom resides the soul of Salman Khan.
Salim Khan playing with Nani Arpita.
Relationship- 8- Salim does not compare Salman with other children. Among all Salim Khan's children, the eldest son Salman Khan is the most successful. On his bonding with Salman, Salim Khan said in an interview on 'The Invincibles' series – When I saw Salman's first film, I was sure that he would become a big actor one day.
My only contribution to Salman's career is that I advised him to make the right choices from time to time. However, I never tried to impose my opinion. I did the same with the other children.
Another most important thing is that I have not even compared that Salman is more successful than other kids. I see the hard work of other children. I am sure everyone is doing well and will continue to do so.
Punished himself for not paying Salman's fees Salim always protects his children. Salim has performed the role of a father very well whenever Salman has been in trouble. Salman Khan narrated an incident related to his father Salim on The Kapil Sharma Show. He said that there came a time when the financial condition of his family was very bad. Salim Khan did not even have enough money to pay Salman's school fees.
One day when Salim arrived at his son's school, he found Salman standing outside the class with his hands raised. Seeing this condition of his son, he went straight to the principal. When the principal asked the reason, he said – Your son's fees have not been deposited, that's why he has been punished.
In reply, Salim said – If the son's fee has not been deposited, then it is my fault. I should be punished. After telling this to the principal, Salim went out and stood at the same place where his son was kept standing.
Salim Khan with elder son Salman Khan.
When Salman Khan was in jail, Salim could not even drink water. Salman Khan had to stay in jail for 18 days in blackbuck case. Talking about this, Salim Khan said that – no parent can see their son in jail. We could not even drink water when he was in jail. Sleeping in AC was also unpleasant, as there was neither AC nor fan in the jail. Water system was also bad.
Salman Khan is on the target of the Lawrence gang these days due to the Black Panther case. Some time ago Salim Khan also received threats from the Lawrence gang. Salim Khan had given an interview some time back regarding the constant threats he was receiving and Salman's favour. He said that his son Salman never hunted antelope. There is no reason for his apology. We received constant threats and our freedom was taken away.
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