The festival of Diwali is one of the major festivals of Indian culture. It is not just a festival but an occasion when all the family members come together and light the lamp of love and harmony in the relationship. But in today's busy life somewhere we forget our elders.
Earlier we used to sit with our grandparents in our free time or in the evening, but today's kids start using their smartphones as soon as they come back from school and tuition. In this fast paced life, time spent with elders is getting less and less. This Diwali let us realize our responsibility and strengthen our relationships by spending time with our elders.
Today we relationship Let's learn about-
- Why is it necessary to celebrate Diwali with elders?
- Why is there a need to strengthen relationships with elders?
- How to strengthen relationships with elders on Diwali?
Elders have seen more Holi-Diwali than us
Relationship counselor Aparna Deval says elders have their life experience. They have seen more Diwali and Holi than us. It would be very interesting to know from them how much the nature of festivals has changed between their generation and ours. What changes have occurred in customs and traditions?
Celebrating festivals with elders strengthens relationships and helps to overcome their loneliness. When we involve the elders in every work related to the festival and take their advice, their enthusiasm is also maintained.
Apart from this the children of the house also have respect for them and they also pass on such things to the coming generations. The presence of elders creates a sense of trust in the family, which increases further with their participation in festivals.
Diwali symbolizes family, traditions and unity Festivals like Diwali increase the importance of strengthening the relationship with elders. Diwali is not only a festival but a symbol of family, traditions and unity. On the occasion of this festival we need to build a close relationship with the elders of our house. Let's understand through the graphic why this Diwali one needs to strengthen the relationship with elders.
Elders have a wealth of knowledge preserved over generations On the occasion of Diwali, the importance of strengthening the relationship with elders increases. They have a wealth of traditional knowledge and rituals, which have been preserved for generations. It is only by spending time with the elders that we get to truly know the method of worship, traditions and history related to Diwali. With their guidance, discipline, values and a sense of mutual cooperation develop within us.
Spending time with elders in the family brings peace of mind The guidance of elders in preparing for Diwali Puja gives us a sense of unity and harmony in the family. All family members gather on this festival, which increases love and affection in relationships.
Time spent with elders, laughter and their company gives us peace of mind and contentment. It also teaches us that the happiness of festivals increases when shared together.
The experience of elders is a priceless treasure Elders are not only the senior members of our family, but also have invaluable life experience. The stories told by him have hidden lessons at every turn of life. A few years ago when smartphones and internet were not so popular, we used to sit by them and listen to stories.
In such a situation, sitting with them, we get to know and understand traditional festivals like Diwali. We can also learn about the traditional worship practices of our home. We worship our family deity and family deity on every festival.
Today many of us do not know about our family goddess and clan goddess and their significance. All this is part of keeping us connected to culture.
Spend time with elders this way on DiwaliSpending time with elders on Diwali not only makes them happy but also strengthens the bonds between the family. Spending time with elders creates a unique harmony. They listen to your problems, offer solutions from their experience and most importantly, their presence radiates positive energy.
Elders are the core of the family, which holds the entire family together. Spend some time with them on Diwali to feel how important they are to us.
Emotional support and securityElders are like trees in the family, under whose shade everyone finds solace. In today's changing and busy life, spending time with elders gives us emotional support.
They understand the ups and downs of our life well and help us to show the right direction. These moments spent with elders make us feel secure. His advice is often a guide for us.
Why is the health of elders our responsibility? During Diwali, when everyone is busy with their own happiness, the health of the elderly is neglected. The noise of crackers, pollution and sweets can be harmful to their health. It is our responsibility to take care of their health. We should pay attention to their eating and drinking habits. If they suffer from diabetes or any other health problem, healthy options should be prepared for them.
Loneliness is a serious problem for the elderly Elderly people often feel lonely in the family. Children and young generation are so engrossed in their busy lives that elders do not have time to sit and talk with them. This isolation has a negative impact on their mental and physical health.
On the festival of Diwali, sit with the whole family and listen to them, share your views. This will remove their loneliness and they will be able to experience Diwali in true sense.
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