Varsha Bhatt (Vrinda)
Every parent is very possessive about their children. As long as children are small, they believe everything their parents say, but as soon as they become teenagers, there is a big change in the nature and behavior of the children. Let's talk about Heta. She used to stay in her room all day long. She used to get so busy with her mobile phone that she was not aware of the world around her. Heta's mother spoke to him calmly one day about this matter, then Heta found her mother's words to be true. In this way you also give freedom to your children, give them the phone but at the same time explain them with love without stopping them. This is the age where if you are too harsh or too reserved, there will come a time when he will not consider you. In today's times, one has to give some freedom to their children, trusting them, giving them freedom. Many girls or boys are seen complaining that our parents don't understand us, let alone trust us. Especially when children grow up, they have many doubts and many questions in their minds. At that time children also want to open up, children want to talk openly, but it often happens that if parents are too strict, children hesitate to express their thoughts in front of them, they feel that if they do something If they say it, they will have to face their parents. Because of this, they do not speak openly and feel confused. Because of this, children hide some things from the fear of elders. They feel it is their fault and will be reprimanded. To prevent this from happening, parents should also talk to their children from childhood, giving them some space to share everything. Thus, if the parents do not give space to the children at home and do not become friends with the children, the children look for these friends outside the home. And at such times sometimes in search of friends they join wrong people. As a result, children resort to addiction, theft and crime. Also, especially if there is a daughter, the parents take more care of her. Eventually, your excessive shyness makes him think of you as an enemy. You also understand your daughter, become her friend before she becomes a teenager. By doing this, the daughter will tell you all her stories. Give him space, respect. A mother should be a role model for her daughter. If he has made a mistake even unintentionally, explain it with love instead of getting angry. Thus, when your children reach a certain age camp, if you remain their friend and not their boss, your relationship will be sweeter.
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