Mood and Mind: Circumstances Help a Person Develop!

Dr. Spandan Thacker Myra was worried by everyone as her nature was very simple and straightforward. The question of how this girl will move forward in this day and age was always there. Amyra's biggest support was her father. Amyra was more dependent on her father for every little thing. Whenever there is any problem, he calls his father and gets a solution. It can be said that no problem has been directly handled by Amyra yet. Suddenly one day an unexpected event happened. His father had a seizure and died before reaching the hospital. This was such a shock that no one could bear. Aura broke over the whole house. Amyra's condition was such that there was no ray of hope to live. For months she did not leave her room. Eat some food and keep the plate aside. There was no contact with anyone. Days passed in the dark room. Suddenly Amyra got up and got ready and came down. She went to her mother and sat down and said 'Mom, don't worry, I have to take care of everything now. Papa no business, I will handle all the house handling'. The house members were shocked to see her change. Amyra handled the situation on her own. In fact, not every event necessarily results in post-traumatic stress. Sometimes certain events can also become post-traumatic growth. Expressing her feelings, Amyra said that 'Personally, there has been a huge loss in my life, but if I think about the family, I am needed the most right now. After Papa left, I realized that I am the eldest among the siblings. Papa was my strength he always supported me. In his absence it is my responsibility to take care of the house. My nature has not been able to fight alone before but today I feel that I have to change my nature. As Papa stood by me everywhere, I have to stand for the house. His nature has to be developed in me.' This mid-life incident brought about a 180 degree change within Amaira. Today she is a successful business woman and family woman. How you receive the event and how you react to it is very important.

Image Credit: (Divya-Bhaskar): Images/graphics belong to (Divya-Bhaskar).