Our Talk: What would you say to these parents?

If you want to get admission in a good college, want a job after graduation, want to get married, if you want to get a name in any field, you have to prove your worth, you have to work hard. But people don't need any qualifications to become parents. Marriage takes place, life as husband and wife begins and a child is born. And when the child comes to this earth, the moment his parents get the position of God. Mother is the true form of God on earth. Let's hear all this, let's believe. Yet has it ever occurred to you that you look at certain people and think, these people really deserve to be parents? After reading what two people who are originally from Ahmedabad, but have settled in America for years, this question arose in my mind. Give your response. A widower who has spent sixty years of his life befriends an unmarried woman who is thirty-three years younger than him. We will refer to them as Varmaji and Rashi. After some time their simple friendship went further. But no one was interested in marriage. The man was very rich and the woman had her own independent life. Also, this was an off and on relationship. Sometimes they stay together for ten-fifteen days, sometimes they don't meet for months. This was going on for years. Then suddenly it was discovered that the woman had cancer. His treatment started but the doctor also said that the patient will not live much longer. Vermaji brought his girlfriend home. He insisted that Rashi should stay with him in his last days. The house had all the facilities. And then one day got good news that Rashibehan got pregnant. She said that she was not ready to have an abortion. Before dying she had to become a mother. She stopped the drugs after hearing warnings that the cancer treatment she was taking could affect the unborn child, calling death closer, say. Those who heard it first joked that wow Varmaji, salute to your power even at this age. But that Shaktiman's condition worsened. He really had feelings for Rashi, so he could not even ask her to leave the house in such a situation. Also, if he abandons it, people will call him stone hearted. The deceased wife left the responsibility of two sons on him. Both of them have established their own households in other states. Their children have also grown up. Verma requested those close to him to convince Rashi to have an abortion. People tried their own way. It was said that it was impossible for the child to survive in his condition, but the ghost of motherhood before death was firmly placed on the head of Bhut Rashi. He had confidence in himself. And indeed she gave birth to a living boy. The underweight child also came home healthy after the treatment. Within six months, Rashi handed over her son to her 75-year-old boyfriend and closed her eyes forever. Vermaji called his sister living in America and asked her to take the child, but she refused. There was no fault in it. He had his own sons, great-grandsons. Vermaji's sons also did not want this younger brother. Also, the father did not even marry a legitimate Rashi. That woman never became a part of Verma's family. So now the moral responsibility of raising her child was not bothering anyone. Some people felt sorry for Verma, while some people felt more sorry for her Buddha boyfriend than Rashi in the whole thing. In the last days of her life, the mental condition of the woman must have deteriorated, so she insisted on becoming a mother, but you had the sense to allow such a situation to happen, words like these were being said behind her back. Verma himself must have felt the same way, but his defense of his personal friends is also understandable. 'At the age of fifty years, I would become the father of a child, I never imagined!' Three years have passed since this incident. A 78-year-old Vermaji, his three-year-old son and his nanny live in a large, luxurious apartment in a posh area of ​​New York. By the time the son learned to walk, the father's legs began to wobble under the effects of age. Heard this from a family member of Vermaji himself. I don't know anything about what is going on in that house now, how happy the father and son are, what work the father has not given the child for adoption. And not even the right to inquire. But if you think about how many years the father will live now, what will happen to the child after his departure, how will his mental state be even now in a house without a mother and with a very old father? Don't assume that it will be sad or it will happen. But would you want to see a child in such a state?

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